Is the term "Virgin" pretty ist, bigoted and wholly unsavoury?

I find the stigma about virginity, specifically, that it is a good thing, or something to be proud of, positively revolting. However, while you are certainly right about the original meaning of the word, its meaning seems to have changed to be less ist over time. Still, the ideas many religions have about virginity are backward, ist, and wholly unsavory. yes